Charles from Atlanta, GA, wants to know... How to set the stage for love See the picture. Most women would gladly jump into this scene, but not if you're a Class-A slob. If so, clean up your mess in a hurry. Don't rush, either. The key is the three P's: preparation, preparation, preparation.
If you know she is coming over for movie night, don't just throw your shit into the bedroom thinking that is the easiest way to clean your living room. All true pros, know that any encounter can take you back to the bedroom. In fact, all roads lead to the bedroom. If you want to throw your laundry someplace, she won't see it in the garage.

 

Jesse from Eau Claire, WI, wants to know… How to get the ladies to mob you Drawing multiple ladies to you at a club can be a hard thing to do. Your best bet is to go to a dance club and work on your dancing game and then start bump and grinding with as many "lady lumps" as you can.
There will, inevitably be some who are put off by this behavior, but then others will revel in your masculinity and will want to get in on the fun before their competitors do. Show them there is plenty enough of you to go around and you will get exactly what you are looking for.

 

Ted from Newton Grove, NC, wants to learn... How to have safe sex Sometimes we have to state the obvious: get a "jimmy hat." Beware that many condoms contain lubricants sometimes contain a spermicidal called Nonoxynol 9. Nonoxynol 9 was thought to help to prevent pregnancy and the transmission of HIV and other STDs, but it is now known to drop the ball in that regard.

But, hey, you have to wear that Jimmy Hat and you will safeguard yourself from most forms of nasty snatch and also help prevent pregnancy. The Jimmy Hat can make things fun, too. After all, like your dates, they come in all sorts of varieties. Some are flavored to make oral sex more enjoyable. All of the differences in shape are designed to suit different personal preferences and enhance your mutual pleasure. So wear the Jimmy Hat and only take it off when you're done.

 

Terry from Toronto, Canada, wants to know… How to heighten her pleasure Terry nearly answered his on own question: heighten it by heightening her. Getting her up in the air will literally heighten her sexual pleasure. After the clothes come off, hoist her up and then set her down on your manliness.
This position will heighten her pleasure but you might not be able to maintain it too long. After all, what goes up must come down.

 

	Bob from Spanish Fork, UT, wants to know… How to impress her with foreplay You need to take your time, Bob, and move your fingers slowly through her hair to start. Oh, how women love to be touched sensually especially by playing with their hair.
This is one tip any fool can't get wrong. Slowly caress her hair, running your fingers through it and then gradually, as she relaxes, run your fingers over her body while working your way down.

 

Jason from Put-In Bay, OH, wants to work on… How to let things develop naturally You need to relax and let go of your sexual expectations. When you do so, in all likelihood, she will open up more and what you didn't demand you will get without having to ask.
Moreover, what you once thought you must have, you will get with plenty of abundance. This is the essence of letting things develop the natural way.