Carrie from Seattle, WA, wants to know… Does lingerie turn him on? It is different for all men, Carrie. You need to find out in the early stages what sorts of lingerie do it for him. For instance, don't immediately turn the lights off and strip down naked and then roll around on the floor not having any good idea about what the man likes to look at. Lingerie can be a wonderful sexual aperitif. It's like putting a ribbon on the present.

 

Shelly from Greely, CO, wants to learn... How to tantalize him We recommend doing suggestive things like sucking on your fingers or pulling your hair up high and back – like there is a man back there riding your end to no end! You get the point. There are a lot of ways to do this… Bend over provocatively when you drop something. Give him something to shot for.

 

Lisa from Rawlins, WY, wants to know how to... Drive him freaking wild There can be some amazing ways to drive your lover wild with lust by submitting to his every will and whim. A good way to do this is to start with light bondage. You can handcuff yourself to a chair or the head board while wearing a sexy negligee. If you don't want to get into purchasing or using real handcuffs, scarves work equally as well in creating the illusion that you are his sex slave.

But in reality it will be him that is your sex slave. You will have him doing exactly what you want. Remember play is play. Know the ground rules beforehand and you should have an enjoyable sexual experience that will drive him freaking wild.

 

Liz from St. Cloud, MN, wants to know... How to strut sexy with lingerie The idea here is that when you want to surprise him with your sexy lingerie, act like nothing is out of the ordinary. Simply parade about the room doing normal everyday chores and you are bound to catch his eye. In no time at all, you will both be engaged in your own household activity.

 

Sheila from Jackson, MS, wants to know how to… Look smart and sexy Put on some glasses – sexy ones that are slim, black framed, rectangular and inviting. There are other ways, too, such as looking a little on the bookish side by wearing some school girl-like outfits. Pleated skirts will do the trick.
We are not sure what it says about men that it turns them on corrupting an innocent intellectual ingénue but it does get them going. So, do your homework and invite him over for a lesson on sex.

 

	Kelly from Hammond, LA, wants to know… How to be shy and sexy This is easy to do… invite your man over to your place and act like you are late getting ready. Then stage a fake skin show. For example, after getting a shower pull the old 'drop the towel' technique and than cover your goodies immediately.
Give him just enough to get a peek and remember to smile hungrily and briefly. This will get him going for you big time and guess what? You were still that little shy kitten, weren't you? Don't worry we won't tell anybody your secret.

 

Cookie from Newport News, VA, wants to… Hook up with a nice man Nice women need to get laid, too. Toward those ends, avoid bars and do what you can to draw nice men to you. Understand the proverbial "nice guy" is an animal that should be on the endangered species list. You are best advised to let them find you in some manner by presenting yourself as available.
Also, if you want to 'hook up' then make your place 'hook up' ready, too. Do you still have a double bed? Are there two pillows? Do you have some beer on hand even though you only drink wine? Arrange your place like a nice guy is coming over to rock your world. Because, one night, Mr. Nice guy will. They are out there – you simply have to let them come to you and then be ready for them.

 

	Kathy from Georgetown wants to know… How to sneak off at a formal event The best advice is to wear something easily accessible. This way you can swiftly put yourself back together after you and yours vanish to the utility room.
We're not necessarily suggesting avoiding underwear, but, the easier the better and you do want to avoid getting caught. (Unless getting caught is part of the fun, too.)

 

Tricia from Wheeling, WV, wants to know… How to use food to your advantage Just remember that men want three things to keep them happy: sex, food and football (the order is up for debate). So, if you are feeling the need for some hot sex and you want him to get the signals, you can use food to your great advantage. Start out with lingering lips on sensual food.
Don't forget our personal Romances.com rule here: sensual foods should be confined to fruits. After all, putting a banana in your mouth is sexy; putting a kielbasa in it, is not.